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an aunt in her 50s wears a little crown, Lolita and a small head.

take a leisurely walk on Anfu Road in Shanghai.

Last summer, this photo caused a lot of controversy after it was posted online.

some people praised her courage and called her "Princess Anfu Road".

others mocked her, treating her as an eye-catching Internet celebrity, saying that she was "more ugly than weird."

others are busy refuting the rumor, saying that they have a "poor life background":

"hair loss due to serious illness."

"taking hormone medicine makes the body fat."

"suffering from illness and suffering, once depressed."

"well-dressed is a struggle against illness."

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later, it was revealed that she was an "invisible tycoon":

"graduated from a well-known university in China and majored in fashion design. He has 10 suites in Shanghai."

anyway, there has been a lot of online noise around "Princess Anfu Road" for nearly a year.

recently, Princess Anfu Road walked into the TV station for the first time and debunked all previous lies.

her family is really well-off. She has opened a clothing store and worked as a fashion designer herself, but she is not a graduate of a famous university and studied hotel management, which has nothing to do with clothing.

did not have any serious illness, that is, a few years ago, the body put on weight, she did not deliberately lose weight, hair shaving is a kind of her own styling.

as for "Little Princess", that is her favorite style now, because she has liked to try all kinds of fashionable costumes since she was young.

and the "an Fu Road catwalk" in the eyes of others is just the only way for her to go home every day.

some people are disappointed with the honesty of "Princess Anfu Road".

"are you dressed so differently, just to look good?"

"Don't you want to be popular?"

"how can you be a woman without a story?"

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now, Anfu Road has become a sign-in point for online celebrities.

every appearance of "Little Princess" attracts countless onlookers.

but good or bad, it seems to have nothing to do with her.

in the words of "Princess Anfu Road", the answer is

"what people tell me is of no value to me."

she will not consider the eyes of others, she just wants to live her own life calmly and please herself every day.

I don't know if you have noticed that the incident of "Princess Anfu Road" has exposed a strange phenomenon in today's society.

there is a kind of people in life:

they will "join the party inexplicably, jump on the bandwagon anxiously and break other people's hearts".

give me an example.

also last summer, on the streets of Wuhan.

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because of the various kinds of sugar water sold, the price will not rise for 17 years, and the glass can be refilled for two yuan.

Grandpa Xie Yongan of sugar water went viral on the Internet.

this was originally a good thing.

unexpectedly, criticism poured in.

first there are rumors that the elderly do not wear masks and the ingredients are not clean.

he went on to say that his children and grandchildren were unfilial, and the old man was so old that he had to go out to set up a stall at night.

even solemnly promoted the "miserable old age" of a lonely old man.

but the fact is:

Grandpa Xie's room where sugar water is made is clean and sanitary, and the ingredients used are real, and even pots and pans are shiny.

and the family is very friendly, and the children and grandchildren are also very filial.

but when the rumor came out, it was flying all over the sky.

Grandpa Xie can only give up the business he has run for more than ten years and return to his hometown.

isn't it sad to see "Grandpa Sugar Water" and "Little Princess Anfu Road" together?

living in such an era, everyone may at some point be shot into a hedgehog by sharp arrows coming from all directions.

how to avoid becoming a "victim in the mouth of others"?

Feng Tang said a paragraph:

"in fact, there are two very important questions in life, one is that you have to ask me carefully, and the other is that it is none of your business, so you can know what is wrong and which is right."

this sentence sounds simple and rude, but it is the truth of life.

knowing "none of my business" and "none of your business" can solve 99% of the problems in life.

before, a girl went on a trip with her pet dog.

I didn't expect that the weather was hot and the dog had heatstroke and couldn't walk.

Girls are too weak to pick them up at all.

seeing a group of sedan chair bearers nearby, he asked them to help carry the dog.

it is only natural that you will and I will. The girls have solved their urgent needs, and the sedan chair bearers also have business to do.

but after this scene was photographed and posted on the Internet, it attracted a lot of criticism.

in the mouths of those people, girls have become shameless people who trample on other people's dignity and "treat dogs as fathers".

in the face of more and more serious cyber violence, the girl is very depressed, but her counterattack is also quite beautiful:

"I advise you to mind your own business, I haveIf you have the ability to be good to your own dog, you will naturally have the ability to be good to your own father, and you don't need to worry about it! "

at the same time, the sedan bearers and scenic spot management departments of Wugong Mountain also said:

"there are all kinds of lifting dogs and things, tourists pay for it, sedan chair bearers contribute, and it can also promote employment, so there is no need to pay attention to those voices on the Internet."

so a farce soon subsided.

there is a theory of self-depletion in psychology.

is that although you do nothing, every time you struggle, worry, and distract, you are wasting your mental energy, and every time you consume a little mental energy, your executive ability and willpower will decline.

therefore, it is better for Zhou Guoping to say, "Life should have uncompetitive wisdom."

often compete with others, not with fools.

Don't pay attention to the likes and dislikes of others, as long as you are right, you are done.

there is a self-deprecating sentence on the Internet:

"living in this world, trying not to be hated by others is actually a very simple thing; you just need to disguise yourself, blindly compromise and give up, so that others will not hate you."

this is not the case.

Mo Yan described his experience of attending banquets three times in the Shame of eating.

for the first time, when he was treated, he ate hungrily, and his friend looked at it and laughed at it and said:

"look at Mo Yan. As soon as the food is on the table, he is desperate again!"

Mo Yan suddenly felt ashamed and thought he was a "hillbilly", and everyone looked down on him.

the second time, he offered to treat and thought it would be all right for him to eat more this time.

never thought of being teased because he was reluctant to waste leftovers such as green onions and sauce.

"look at Mo Yan. He has to eat his money back."

Mo Yan feels humiliated again.

for the third time, he simply filled up half full before going to the party.

this time he ate slowly, but someone said sarcastically:

"look at Mo Yan's fake strength, as if he could eat like Jia Baoyu with only his front teeth."

"look at Mo Yan. He has to eat his money back."

Mo Yan feels humiliated again.

for the third time, he simply filled up half full before going to the party.

this time he ate slowly, but someone said sarcastically:

"look at Mo Yan's fake strength, as if he could eat like Jia Baoyu with only his front teeth."

the old man has never read a book, but she has the simplest wisdom:

"what does it matter if you are wronged by this? Mother clearly saw that you are getting fatter and fatter day by day, how can you get fat if you don't enjoy happiness? Son, you are enjoying happiness. Don't be blessed with happiness. "

Mo Yan suddenly realized:

"Yes, the so-called self-esteem and face are all things after having enough to eat."

everything you do is wrong in front of people who don't like you.

instead of pleasing others everywhere, concentrate on pleasing yourself.

Hideko Yamashita, author of "break up", said:

"there are three kinds of people in this world: those who crawl on the ground, those who climb trees, and those who fly."

the first kind of people, who are indecisive, do not realize what their "unnecessary, inappropriate, and uncomfortable" messages and emotions are, are obsessed with the past, feel uneasy about the future, and are unable to live in the present.

the second kind of person, although aware of the importance of living in the present, is hesitant and hesitant;

the third kind of person, who has a clear understanding of himself and is full of courage, can meet the necessary people, things and things by chance, overlook a variety of different life landscapes and make choices for his own life.

fools please others, but wise men please themselves.

the world is very big, and everyone's life trajectory is different, and what they pursue is also different.

say something in silence: "it's none of your business, it's none of my business."

when we understand that "life is our own and has nothing to do with others", we don't have so much trouble.

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