Home is our harbor of happiness, the happiness of a family needs the painstaking management of the family.
as the old saying goes, "good things don't go out, but bad news travels fast."
people in this world gloat a lot, and I hope you don't have a good life.
as the saying goes:
ugliness can not be made public, and dignity is given by yourself. for the scandals of a family, you should learn to keep quiet, and few people will know about it if you do not tell yourself.
if you can't keep your mouth shut, someone will read jokes. "
everyone has ash at the bottom of the pot, as long as they know it. Some things are suitable for a family to solve on their own, internal digestion and internal reflection.
discord between parents
parents are often the backbone of a family.
there are thousands of parents in the world, so the feelings between some parents may not be so good, and there is often some friction.
this is the helplessness of life, and it is also difficult for our children to change.
the three-character Classic says:
"if you have done it, remonstrating you more, pleasing my color, softening my voice, not remonstrating, remonstrating with pleasure, crying with you, and tarting without resentment."
parents should be persuaded euphemistically when they have done something wrong, which is the proper attitude of children.
if you don't save face to your parents, or even tell them to others, you will undoubtedly lose face to your parents.
and the parents quarreled and discordant, after all, it was a matter of the previous generation, and the children took care of it if they could, but let them go if they couldn't.
A family, the good relationship between family members is a necessary condition to promote the prosperity of the family.
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"Brothers fight against the wall and defend themselves against foreign aggression. If so, although the brother has a little anger, he will not abandon his relatives. "
No matter how many contradictions there are between brothers and sisters, they are still a family, "whether they are close or not, a family that breaks bones and tendons."
if there is a contradiction, just solve it within the family and tell it to others. It's just that there are many people who watch you lively and laugh at you.
fighting tiger brothers, fighting father and son soldiers, brothers and sisters United as one, outsiders dare not bully.
only when we help each other can we have the affection of a mother's compatriots, and if we tell it to others, it will be a scandal to the public.
some people will swoop in and let the relationship between brothers and sisters get farther and farther away.
conflicts between husband and wife
A family, the relationship between husband and wife is very important.
"it takes a hundred years to build the same boat and a thousand years to sleep together." it is not easy to become husband and wife. If they have not reached an irreparable stage, do not easily give up on each other. We should cherish our fate together.
they all say that "husband and wife are of one mind, its benefits cut off gold", which is about the importance of husband and wife as one.
A couple may have accumulated too many grievances and resentments in their mundane life, but they have nowhere to say. Once they find someone to talk to, they will pour out their grievances.
but you don't know that the consequence of this is to let others look at your lover with tinted glasses and vilify the image of your lover.
in this life, what we care about most is our families, parents, wives and children, which is not only our armor but also our weakness.
if you live well, some people will envy you; if you do not live well, some people will gloat.
be sure to remember that family ugliness should not be made public, some things rot in the stomach, and don't tell others.
Home is the harbor of our happiness, and the happiness of a family needs the painstaking management of the family.
, may everyone reap a family with healthy parents, harmonious brothers and harmonious husband and wife.
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